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A Mom's Survival Guide to May Madness!

Ah, May. The month where chaos seems to reign supreme for moms everywhere. With the end of the school year approaching at lightning speed, moms find themselves juggling a whirlwind of activities, events, and obligations. From final exams to field trips, sports tournaments to graduation ceremonies, May is undoubtedly one of the busiest times of the year for moms. But fear not, moms! With a few strategies up your sleeve, you can navigate this mayhem with grace and even find moments of ease amidst the madness.

1. Master Your Calendar: Your trusty calendar is your best friend during May madness. Take some time to sit down and map out all the important dates and events happening throughout the month. From school deadlines to extracurricular activities, having everything scheduled will help you stay organized and on top of things. If you are still using planners or handwritten calendars, we have a great suggestion for you! Switch to a digital calendar app on your phone- we LOVE Google Calendar.


In today's fast-paced world, the convenience and flexibility of a digital calendar is unmatched. I know, I know- it can be hard to make the switch. Some people prefer to write on paper calendars because it helps them remember the dates. But guess what? You don't have to remember them! You can schedule reminders on your phone so that visual notifications and alarms will go off before or on the date of your event! It's easy to leave behind a planner or forget an important appointment from a handwritten calendar. But, with digital calendars, you can access your schedule anytime, anywhere, with just a tap of your finger.

2. Prioritize Self-Care & Mental Health: It's easy to get caught up in the hustle and bustle, but don't forget to prioritize your self-care. Make sure to carve out some time to do some things for yourself. Challenge yourself to set aside your phone during quick free moments and instead engage in simple, grounding tasks at home. Whether it's a quick meditation session, cuddling your pet, taking a bath, or just a few moments of quiet with a cup of tea, taking care of yourself is essential for staying sane during this hectic time. If you can schedule time away from home, and have a little extra to spend, you could also book a pampering experience like a pedicure, massage, acupuncture session, sound bath, or sauna.


May serves as an opportune moment to reflect on mental health as it coincides with Mental Health Awareness Month. It's a gentle reminder to prioritize ourselves. Why not carve out some time for activities that truly nurture your body and soul? Here are some surefire ways to boost your mental health:

  • Prepare Healthy Meals: Eating healthy isn't just good for your body – it's also vital for your mental health. A balanced diet rich in fruits, vegetables, whole grains, and lean proteins provides essential nutrients that support brain function and helps to regulate your mood. To save time, you can meal prep so that the bulk of the washing and chopping is all done at once!

  • Exercise: Engaging in regular physical activity releases endorphins, often referred to as "feel-good" hormones, which can boost your mood and reduce feelings of stress and anxiety. Exercise promotes better sleep, increases self-esteem, and provides a sense of accomplishment, all of which contribute to improved mental health. Whether it's a brisk walk, a yoga session, or a workout at the gym or a class, finding activities that you enjoy can have a profound positive impact on your overall well-being.

  • Go Out in Nature: Studies have shown that spending time with pets and being out in nature can lower levels of cortisol, the stress hormone, while boosting mood and enhancing overall feelings of happiness and well-being. So next time you're feeling overwhelmed or stressed, consider taking a step outside and reconnecting with the beauty of the natural world.

  • Community Development: Building and maintaining strong connections with people provides us with a sense of belonging, support, and companionship that can significantly impact our overall happiness and resilience. Whether it's sharing laughter over a meal, enjoying meaningful conversations, or simply being there for each other during challenging times, these interactions nourish our souls and lift our spirits. Studies have shown that social support networks play a vital role in reducing stress, combating feelings of loneliness, and promoting emotional well-being. It's important to prioritize current friendships while also making an effort to meet new friends!

  • Maintain Hobbies: These activities offer a chance to unwind, relax, and indulge in things you love, fostering a sense of fulfillment, accomplishment, and confidence. Whether it's painting, reading, gardening, cooking, or playing music, immersing yourself in a hobby can boost your mood, enhance your creativity, and offers a refreshing break from daily demands.

  • Activities and Events: Schedule regular times to get out of the house and go do something fun! You could go to a new restaurant, go see some live music, go to the theater, a comedy club or visit a local museum or park! The possibilities are endless!


By prioritizing these self-care and mental health practices, you're not only enhancing your well-being but also fostering a deeper sense of fulfillment and balance in your life. Remember, taking care of yourself isn't selfish; it's fundamental for your overall health and happiness, as well as for the harmony of your family life. And if you ever need some extra emotional support during this time, don't hesitate to reach out to a local coach, counselor or psychologist- they're here to help you.

4. Embrace Imperfection: Let's face it, no mom is perfect and that is totally normal. Things may not always go as planned, especially this month! Embrace your imperfections and be kind to yourself when things don't go smoothly. Stay flexible, go with the flow, and focus on cherishing moments and enjoying the journey of motherhood rather than striving for perfection.


Don't forget to take a moment to celebrate the milestones and accomplishments of your children. Whether it's cheering them on at a sports game, attending a recital, or celebrating their graduation. These moments are what make all the madness worth it in the end! Stay adaptable, embrace the unexpected, and remember, it's all part of the adventure of motherhood!

5. Lean on Your Support System: As the demands of May madness start to pile up, remember that you don't have to tackle everything alone! Your support system can help you! Whether it's a quick emotional support brunch with a friend, your spouse pitching in with household chores, a friend picking up your kids from school, or a family member helping with meal prep, don't hesitate to reach out and ask for assistance.


Delegating tasks and sharing responsibilities not only lightens your load but also strengthens your connections with those who care about you. After all, it truly does take a village to navigate the whirlwind of end-of-school-year activities and commitments. So, embrace the support around you and remember that there's no shame in accepting help when you need it most. Together, you can tackle anything that comes your way with grace and resilience.

So, fellow moms, take a deep breath and tackle May Madness head-on with these survival tips in your arsenal. With a little organization, self-care, and a whole lot of love, you've got this! By carving out time for self-care, practicing mindfulness, and seeking support when needed, we can ensure that we're not only surviving the end of the school year, but thriving through it. Remember, you can't pour from an empty cup, so be sure to prioritize your mental health and well-being. Here's to surviving May Madness and emerging stronger, wiser, and more resilient than ever before. You've got this, mama!

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